The L.I.O.N. Framework.
Because most of the acronyms we are used to, are actually useless.
This is the first thing I’m writing that I know will hit inboxes. I’m no writer, but I am a thinker, and your time is valuable. Today, and forever, I’ll do my best to provide actionable value for the privilege of a moment of your time. If this doesn’t interest you, skip it. You owe neither me, nor anyone else, a second. I appreciate what you’ve given me so far.
Welcome to The L.I.O.N. Framework.
I’ve got a bone to pick with some acronyms. Unfortunately for them, and anyone who has forced you into a mold: I’ve got time today.
H.E.N.R.Y. High Earner Not Rich Yet.
D.I.N.K. Double Income No Kids.
S.I.N.K. Single Income No Kids.
Then there’s the D.I.N.K.W.A.D., the S.I.T.C.O.M., and countless other nonsensical labels we allow to be put on our lives. We have linked earnings, temporary situations and status to an easily malleable, external identity, often with a timeline attached.
They are useless at best, and actively detrimental at worst.
We’re being branded by what, Income? Children? “With A Dog” (Yes, that’s the W.A.D). A Job Title? We slide in and out of these groups and others far too easily to let them define or influence us in the slightest.
That’s why people get depressed when their funds get low. Or they get fired. Or divorced. Or dumped. Or “insert life altering moment here”. The alteration is subjective, the impact isn’t.
So, I’m subscribing to my own acronym, because I’ll be damned if anyone gets to tell me how to run my race from the sidelines of the marathon.
Life is fluid, our acronyms should be, too.
The L.I.O.N. Framework
Liquid. Independent. Observant. Non-Conforming.
It’s not a branded psych label, it’s an Operating System to advance, consistently, regardless of your current acronym, age, wealth, or general status.
Use one, all, or none. I don’t care that if you adopt it as your mantra or close the screen and scoff. I care that you have the freedom to make your own decisions, which in 2026, has become an art form in its own right.
Liquid. “Be like water”
Financially and mentally, this is an M.O., not a label. Liquidity is optionality, in it’s purest form, whether that means you have the emergency fund to cover new brake pads, the vet bill, or the emotional capacity to empathize with a position you’ve never experienced. It’s the ability to adjust the input, no matter the vessel. We’ll talk about finances another day, because inflation is real, but this does not mean to be scared of investing. Opportunities require liquidity, at the bank, and in your brain.
Independent. “Strong opinions, loosely held”
In your thoughts, and in your life. That doesn’t mean quit your job, move out of your parent’s house before you’re ready, or to do or not do anything specific. If you know who you really are in your soul, you’re truly independent. Not easily swayed. Not making decisions for someone else versus yourself. That includes your closest friends and family. No one knows the context of your life, except you. I’m sure Pop Pop and Nana have sage wisdom, and I’m sure it’s well-intentioned. I’m also sure that they predate the invention of Microwaves. You are reading these words on a rectangular supercomputer broadcasting into space and back right now, perhaps, just maybe, their advice is outdated.
Observant. “Only the paranoid survive”
Ignorance is bliss, it can also bite you directly in the ass. Pay attention to the world around you. Your health. Your money. Your relationships. Your job. Your project. It’s easy to ignore it all, but the consequences don’t care about that. Expectations, sunk costs, and emotion can derail obvious, logical observations. “That would never happen to me” type moments have happened to a lot of people. Don’t think they can’t happen to you. They can. Whatever “they” are. Being observant is a shield against potential actions, for or against you. You can’t control your environment, but you can observe, prepare, and be anti-fragile for surprises. The black swan is actually, grey.
Non-Conforming. “A person often meets destiny on the very road taken to avoid it”
I could not care less what someone thinks of me at this moment in time, nor their expectations of what I should be doing. It’s taken me a decade to get this honest, and I can’t say it was an easy switch to flip. It’s not. With this, I don’t mean “do the opposite of everyone because you’re a cool little rebel”. Advice is often good. Listening is important. Just make sure it’s right for you.
“Everyone goes to college”. Is that your path, or would the debt crush you?
“Everyone is having kids”. Great, cute kids, do you want them yourself?
“Everyone has a beautiful car and apartment”. Awesome, how much debt are they in? How many of their parents’ credit cards, or their own, have they maxed out?
“Everyone is buying a home”. Excellent, if they got fired tomorrow because of a Claude update, how long before they can’t pay that mortgage? You want to join them?
“Everyone is at the fancy restaurant”. Cool. What did they trade for that? A piece of their future?
“Everyone is doing XYZ”. Who cares? They aren’t you.
No single action here is “bad”. These are all wonderful things.
They’re also the standard set of “expected” things, reinforced by screens and dopamine hits when you see your friend with the Facetime Screenshot of their wedding ring.
Following conformity, blindly, is not a good recipe.
Your last name (likely) isn’t Jones, don’t try to keep up with them.
I’ll be blunt: No One Is A Special Snowflake.
Not me. Not you. I’m sorry, I’m not a “rah-rah” guy. But you knew that already. You didn’t subscribe to this because of my fluffy words. You haven’t scrolled this far because you’re bored. You’re here because my words cut.
Or you’re mocking me, which is totally fine, but like some stuff. I’ll take the views.
However, we are all, Statistically Significant.
That matters more. There’s only one person with your exact breakdown of experiences: You. That’s what has shaped you so far, and should be the base set ingredients for your next move. You need to draw the map.
To think you fit into a mold, when you do not, is torturous. A custom path is daunting automatically, too, but to follow someone else’s map for your life is a fool’s errand.
Those acronyms? Even if they were directions instead of labels, they’d still be useless.
This isn’t.
Observational Ability + Liquidity + Independent Thought = Your Winning FormulaL.I.O.N. isn’t a demand, a brand, or a rule, it’s an Opportunity Matrix for thinking.
Self-directed, internalized, and set up to push your operating system forward.
Because any advice without context is just…noise. And I’m allergic to inauthenticity.
No one can tell you how to live a great life. Not me. Not Grandma.
You have to do that, for you.
“Came a long way from those days when I was stressed out. Still stress it big but I get paid when I vent now. I been overlooked but still claiming I’m the best out. Dying on that hill. Never been a sheep. Only a lion in the field. Sometimes it’s lonely by myself, at least it’s peaceful. Don’t like to put my trust in people, they’re deceitful. Gotta’ watch for the evils. Don’t second guess, know your worth, and don’t let ‘em cheat you.
F*** how they feel about me, I don’t live my life to please you” - Malz Monday
I hope this helps, but if you think it sucks? Good.
You’re an independent thinker, and you’re under no obligation to care, or agree.
Welcome to the Pride, L.I.O.N’s.



“F*** how they feel about me, I don’t live my life to please you” - I need a big picture on my wall with this quote. 👍
I love this framework, especially how each item is an adjective, rather than a noun.
This in itself suggests there is no end-goal, but rather a state of being and moving through the world.
This is also far more powerful as an identity when it comes to the brain. Rather than carry out a full cost-benefit analysis of every decision, these priors filter out the bulk of inappropriate actions before deliberation even starts.